As of right now..all is good for the day. Will and I are hard at work trying to make plans for the wedding, and changing his location.  Yeah I love HI, or I am sure I would, however not a place to raise three little babies.   I would like to be close, or somewhat close to my family when he does end up getting deployed to the sandbox.  That is why we are pulling for Fort Hood TX.  We won't know what the options are until tuesday.  It's harder than one would think to do this marriage thing.   We are going from him having joint custody of his daughter who is 2, and I have joint custody of my son who is 3 and full custody of my six year old daughter.    It's all a learning process that I am glad that I get to go through, I wouldn't want to go through it with anyone else but him.   It's nice having to talk to him.  He keeps me happy when I want to eat Ben and Jerrys, and when he feels like being sad and loney, I keep him happy.    Things couldnt be better, ...well except the distance...which will be changing hopefully by the end of the school year.  i don't want to take my daughter out of her present school until then.